Tuesday 26 July 2011

A picture says a thousand words

In 2009, my Aunt became ill with lung cancer, and began the process of moving from her large family home to a granny flat at my cousin's property.

As part of her move, she began to distribute some of her belongings amongst the family.

I have always been the one who saw value in kitschy things, and in the past my receipt of family heirlooms has been things like a souvenir shell lamp from Naple, Italy or a teapot shaped like a house.

As a part of this transfer of treasures, my mother received boxes and boxes of family photographs, most with records of who and what faithfully written on their backs.

Once Mum passed away, I have found many treasures, but this one has a special place in my heart.

This photo is of my mother, aged 4 weeks old, so would have been taken in 1933.  Her eyes turn towards the light, and one has to wonder what intriguing play of light has caught her eye.

Motherhood is a powerful thing that binds the generations.  This photo might not mean very much to you if you aren't a mother.  It might just be a nice photo of a new baby.  But to me it says everything about being a new mother.  It is almost as if this photo can tell me what my grandmother was thinking.  Marvelling at this new life...gazing on her in wonder at this beautiful creation.  What will her personality be like?  What will she grow up to be?  Can I look after her and love her enough?
Even over 70 years later, this photo tugs at my heart, because it could have been taken yesterday - it could have been a photo of my first baby taken nearly ten years ago.  Mothers have the same sense of awe and wonder now as they did then.

In October 2010, my friend Paula took this photo of a wee baby named Orion and his moments after birth.  I don't know Orion or his Mum, but I don't need to in order to feel what this photo means.  And because Paula is a Mum too, I can bet there was a buzz of emotion swirling around when she took this photo.  I can feel it.

Nearly eighty years on, it makes no difference.  A photo captured at the right moment says everything.  It can be impossible to describe.  It isn't just what you see.  Its what you feel.

Check out Paula's website and blog
http://www.secondnaturephotography.co.nz/
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